He?s pleasant and cordial, not a jerk. But there are signs that there won?t be a second date. You?d agreed to meet for a drink. The waiter brings your drinks, but when he asks if you are ready to order, your date says, ?We?re just having drinks.? If he were interested in spending more time with you, he?d say, ?Check...

Vanish. Disappear. Do a David Copperfield. I've pondered this a lot, as it's happened often. I've interviewed men friends. The following is what I've gleaned. If you don't hear from a guy after one date, it's clear he's not interested. No problem, even though it's classier to send a nice email stating such. But what if you've gone out 2,...