This week I want you to put sex on the calendar. You heard me right! Yes, I want you to plan for it. I know some of you are saying, "What about the spontaneity?" It was never spontaneous. In the beginning you always planned to be together. Let me ask you something. What do you think a honeymoon is, if not an entire week of planned sex? And everyone has the time of his or her life planning for that... sometimes a year in advance. You go out and buy special lingerie, undergarments, cologne, perfume and it's exciting, knowing that ... Read More ...

Now I know that for some of you this will be a challenge. We all learned delayed gratification when we were children. Eat your dinner first and then you can have dessert. Do your homework and then you can watch TV. Clean your room and then you can go outside. Having a quickie means - acting on impulse, being spontaneous, taking a risk, and doing what you feel like doing NOW! Those are the same feelings a person has when they are having an affair. I just want you to create those same feelings inside your relationship, NOT OUTSIDE! Everyone, ... Read More ...

If I want to know how good your sex life is, all I have to do is ask you how good your communication is. I know that a couple who spends quality time... talking to each other every day has a better sex life than a couple who doesn't communicate. Now here's a sad statistic...The average American couple spends 20 minutes a week talking. That's averages out to 3 minutes a day. That includes Good Morning. What's for dinner? Any mail? How are the kids? How was work? What do you know of, that can survive on 3 minutes? Could ... Read More ...

Looking for a destination where the two of you can tempt each other without the distractions of tours, shopping, cities, and too many other travelers? In the Caribbean, you'll find many small islands where the emphasis can be on the two of you. When you're ready to take a break from activity, sprinkled through the islands are some hideaways that beg travelers to kick off their shoes, toss on some sunscreen, then grab a book and a buddy. Many islands even have a special word for this lack of activity: limin', a way to enjoy life at a destination where ... Read More ...

There is something about lingerie that makes it capable of exciting both women and men alike. perhaps it's the way lingerie accentuates the feminine curves of a woman's body. Or perhaps it's the playful look of a revealing undergarment. Regardless, lingerie makes an excellent gift choice that is outside of the normal gift choices men make, such as chocolate and flowers. With lingerie, a romantic encounter is sure to follow. But what types of lingerie are out there? What should I be looking for? These are some of the questions that men ask themselves when they are searching for that ... Read More ...

Last year I put some suggestive vouchers in my husband's stocking, they were redeemable for things like: sex in any room of the house, a sexual fantasy fulfilled, a strip tease. The look on his face when he discovered them was enough to know he was thrilled! (submitted by Laura) Editor's Note: you can buy some seriously sexy printable vouchers here For our last wedding anniversary I had a box beautifully wrapped and sent to my husband at work. Inside were a pair of my sexiest panties and a note that said "If you have my panties that means I'm ... Read More ...

Would you like to be able to say sexy things to your lover in another language? They may not know what you are saying, but it is still very erotic. Below are 9 English phrases that will be translated to French and Spanish. There is even a pronounciation key provided...what good is knowing the words if you can not pronounce them? Spring one on your love during a heated moment or kiss your spouse goodbye and leave him wondering what that was that you just whispered in his ear. Here are the phrases in English: I want you badly I ... Read More ...

Start with conversation. Without even touching the person, talk to them. Get attuned to how they're feeling, etc., at the time of the massage. Find out how their day,week,month has been (Depending on how often you talk to them. =) Ask them if there are any areas that are painful or sensitive that they'd like avoided or paid special attention to. Remember that if they're not comfortable with you, they won't be comfortable with the massage they're receiving from you. Ask them if they would be uncomfortable with taking their clothes off. Let them know that you won't see them ... Read More ...

Do you feel like you're missing out on the "love" when you "make love" to your partner? Has sex become something you 'just do', and lost the intimacy attached to it? Well, the tips I am going to give you will take sex waaaay beyond the "wham-bamm-thank-you-mamm" (or sir) variety and put the love back in. Compliment your Partner This includes compliments about your lover's physical appearance as well as his or her technique. Tell her how beautiful she is as you slowly kiss your way down her body. Tell him how good it feels when he does something you ... Read More ...