How many of you were older brothers? Or how many of you knew guys who were, back in middle or high school? What was the biggest complaint about the younger kid? If you had a standard relationship, the biggest strain was ALWAYS that your younger sibling hung around too much. There you were, trying to play video games, and he was always butting in, usually being embarrassing for some unplaced reason. You wanted to go to the movies with your friends, and she wanted to come, and your mom made you take him. It was so ANNOYING! You had this ... Read More ...

Most of the time, you won't find women out on their own. In these situations, you need to use a few particular skills to get working the way you need it. The steps are simple - but until you learn them, you aren't going to have much luck approaching ladies in large groups. How To Handle a Woman in a Group In the previous section while I was talking about separation - and especially about separating a woman you've just met from her friends - I bet some of you a bunch of thoughts. Things like "That sounds great in ... Read More ...

Derek,I met this hottie at a bar and we chatted for a few minutes. Things were going well and we were really clicking fast so I asked her for her phone number. She gave it to me? Two days later I called her back, but no answer. The next day I called her again and she picked up? but her end of the conversation was stiff and it seemed like she was blowing me off. Derek, what happened? At the bar she seemed interested. Where did I do wrong? Raz - - - A lot of guys think that once ... Read More ...

Keeping yourself from becoming a ?friend? to the woman of your attraction can be a tough thing, but if you know what you?re doing, you?ll never have problems with it again. Follow a few steps to arouse her, and she?ll be wanting it as badly as you. Our Favorite Par Ahh, finally. Here it is, the chapter half of you skipped to first because you couldn?t help yourself, the PHYSICAL chapter. This chapter isn?t the be-all end-all. In fact, it?s barely the beginning. But if you?ve ever had problems with the ?just friends? syndrome, few instructions on this earth will ... Read More ...

You know it?s not that important ? but it still counts for something. Let?s take a moment to talk about what you should do to make yourself look good. First Impression? A lot of people would think you?d talk about appearance first off ? after all, it?s the first thing you see, your first impression, first everything starts at the skin. I hope you?re not one of them anymore. As you probably remember, much more important (and equally instantaneous) is body language. If you?re ugly as sin?s deformed sister you can still overcome that with the way you carry yourself. ... Read More ...

It happens to everyone ? a destructive pattern sets in, and you struggle to get out of it. Habits are some of the strongest emotional forces we humans have to deal with, and successfully breaking bad ones is one of the most difficult tasks. But the job can be made easier: eliminate your old anchors and triggers, watch for thought-habit creep, and start fresh. Always being new Have you ever spent some time traveling? Apart from the usual excitement and interesting things, what is special about your MINDSET? Ok, you could argue for a few things, but for me, there?s ... Read More ...

?There is no spoon.? Oh yeah? Then why do you feel like you?re GAGGING on a spoon every time you approach a woman? Simple, really; you haven't yet TRAINED your BRAIN. Back to that in a moment, first, you need to understand three factors of success with women. #1 Relaxed Confidence #2 Relaxed Confidence #3 Relaxed Confidence Woman can smell relaxed confidence. I'm not talking about arrogance; that is something else entirely. No, I'm talking about smooth, playful, nothing phases you, relaxed confidence. I wonder who it was that said, ?Perception is Reality?? Well, I guess it doesn't really matter ... Read More ...

A lot of guys, when they try to change their success with women, wind up going the wrong way. They pick out the wrong characteristics, never truly commit themselves to the characteristics anyway, and so come across as false and sleazy. The key to doing it RIGHT is all in the body. How does a sleaze become a sleaze? ?Heeeey baby.? When you picture a guy saying that, what do you see? Let me guess ? some lounge lizard with a pencil moustache, a gold medallion bigger than a fist, and a SLEAZY smile. Ugh. These are guys who?ve REALLY ... Read More ...

We spend a lot of time making sure we aren?t put in the ?friend? category. But an even worse mistake is to be thought a creep. There?s no recovery. So let?s define a creep ? and then make sure we?re not it. The Two Bad Categories I want you to think for a moment: what are the two categories of men that you want to stay out of, at all costs, if you?re going to have a chance with a lady? Alright, one is easy: you CAN?T be a ?friend.? We?ve talked about this a lot, and we?re not going ... Read More ...