Ellen Kreidman, Author at GetRomantic.com

Relationship Advice

10 Ways to Light His Fire

August 29, 2019 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

1. Tell him how glad you are that he is part of your life, and how lucky you are to have him. 2. Tell him that you love him just the way he is and that you wouldn't trade him for any other man in the world. 3. Don't criticize, evaluate, or give advice of any kind unless he asks...

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Spice Up Sex

Use Red Light Bulbs

November 1, 2008 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

Replace the boring white light bulbs in your bedroom lamp and put in some red light bulbs instead. You can get the red light bulbs in any hardware store. And believe me red light makes you look young, and thin - you have no lines or wrinkles, I'm sure that's why they have the red light districts. When your mate...

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The Ten Second Kiss

April 22, 2008 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

When a couple stands at the altar and vows to love each other, "Till death do us part," they take for granted that they will be intimately connected forever. The kiss at the end of the ceremony symbolizes that connection. The kiss is the core of a relationship. It is a barometer of how things are going. A couple can...

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Just for Men

10 Ways to Light Her Fire

March 3, 2008 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

Make sure at least once this week you tell her that who she is, her basic core, is what you adore. Take her in your arms and tell her how much value she has as a human being. Comment on what you like about her personality. Reinforce her capabilities. Notice the little things she does for you and tell her...

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Dating Advice

9 Steps to Approaching Someone

June 9, 2007 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

How many times have you been somewhere and seen someone interesting, but haven't had the foggiest idea how to meet that person? Well, here is exactly what to do and say to be able to meet whomever you want to meet. 1. Feel confident and good about yourself - Before you approach someone, concentrate on something you feel good about....

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Put Sex on the Calendar

August 11, 2006 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

This week I want you to put sex on the calendar. You heard me right! Yes, I want you to plan for it. I know some of you are saying, "What about the spontaneity?" It was never spontaneous. In the beginning you always planned to be together. Let me ask you something. What do you think a honeymoon is, if...

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Have a Quickie

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Now I know that for some of you this will be a challenge. We all learned delayed gratification when we were children. Eat your dinner first and then you can have dessert. Do your homework and then you can watch TV. Clean your room and then you can go outside. Having a quickie means - acting on impulse, being spontaneous,...

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Spend 30 Minutes a Day Talking

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If I want to know how good your sex life is, all I have to do is ask you how good your communication is. I know that a couple who spends quality time... talking to each other every day has a better sex life than a couple who doesn't communicate. Now here's a sad statistic...The average American couple spends 20...

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Just for Men

Womens’ Turn Ons and Turn Offs

August 5, 2006 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

I asked the woman who have been through my program to list the top fifteen traits that turned them off to men, then to list the top fifteen traits that they considered turn-ons. Remember, if you don't pay close attention to what turns her off, you'll never get the chance to turn her on. Turn-On's Confidence Sense of humor Intelligence...

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