At the core of this issue is how differently men and women view marriage. For starters, most women are preparing to get married from day one, when they first fell in love with their daddy. Didn't you and your friends pretend wedding? By contrast, how many little boys were playing wedding? For women, getting married is a dream-come-true; the culmination of the fantasy that began the first time they heard a fairy tale with a prince in it. Isn't that what princes are for, to whisk the beautiful maiden off to his castle to live happily-ever-after? Sure, some of you ... Read More ...

One of the things I had a lot of fun sharing on radio shows is my list of Five Reasons Nice Men don't Call. Here's what men have told me... She said too much. Men tell me that many women go into way too much detail about their past relationships, especially of a sexual nature. Men don't want to hear it, even if they ask you to tell them. She talked about all the bad things every man ever did to her...and she blames me. Men hate it when a woman blames them for what some jerk before them did ... Read More ...

The concept of romance is ever-present in our culture. We grow up with it in fairy tales, movies, advertisements, as well as our expectations around finding a life partner and falling in love. This article is aimed at men because men don't seem to complain that "she's not romantic enough." Men need romance, although not to the degree that women seem to. For many men, this subject creates a fair amount of angst. They know women want it, but they don't quite know how to give it to them. Men also know that women tend to have a lot of ... Read More ...

Love is a mystery for most of us and often, we feel insecure about whether or not it will last. Men crave to be understood more than you'll ever know. Here are a few simple secrets every woman should know: Men need to feel successful, so-much-so that, to a man, failure is death. For them, if they fail, they no longer feel like men. It's why men commit suicide more often than women.  Men are most attracted to happy women who genuinely like themselves and who enjoy being women. When you're happy, he feels successful. When you're a bottomless pit ... Read More ...

Following are Twelve Simple Secrets that you should know about her. When you're done reading them you'll have a better grip on what to do to make her smile a little brighter. Secret #1: Romance is the key to sex Romance is routine maintenance--yeah, like your car -- to keep things running smoothly. Remember all those romantic things you did to win her in the first place? Keep doing them now and then. If you let her know often that you care, she stays open and responsive to your sexual overtures. Romance is all the little things you do to ... Read More ...

Is shyness or insecurity keeping you from having what you want? Here's how to get over it. Men agree that one of the most attractive qualities in a woman is when she's self-assured, likes herself, is comfortable with who she is, likes how she looks and most importantly, she's happy. It's impossible to be all those things when you're shy or insecure. And being happy and being shy are two opposites. Being shy is a state of mind and can be changed with practice. The more you describe yourself as shy, the more you believe it is who you are. ... Read More ...

A great way to add spice to your love life, and keep your partner's interest up (so to speak), as well as your own, is to talk sexy. The best way to describe what I mean is to give you some examples. IN BED: During lovemaking, in those times of rest, in between the high energy times, talk about what you just did and how it made you feel; what your partner did and how it made you feel; how your partner reacted to something you did. Say things like, "When I swirled my tongue around the tip of your ... Read More ...

Before you can physically arouse a woman you need to make her "want to be aroused". To get most women in the mood, a man needs to "make love to her all day long." Be nice, loving, and thoughtful and call her in the middle of the day just to say you're thinking of her. Buy her something for no reason. Women need to know you care. They connect naturally through the heart. Men are generally more outward--work and play oriented. They're focused and don't usually think about their relationship as much as women do. Men, if you want her ... Read More ...

Smiling is essential for a man who has sensitivity. Without a smile he assumes you're not interested and he doesn't want to be pushy or risk a rude put-down. Eye contact that lasts just a little longer than is comfortable. Watch how you want to drop your eyes when you look at a man you find attractive. Begin to allow that look to linger...just a little longer, with a hint of a smile. Definitely sends a message but yet keeps it feminine, which men love. In conversation, touch his arm a couple of times. That breaks that barrier and releases ... Read More ...

At the core of this issue is how differently men and women view marriage. For starters, most women are preparing to get married from day one, when they first fell in love with their daddy. Didn't you and your friends pretend wedding? By contrast, how many little boys were playing wedding? For women, getting married is a dream-come-true; the culmination of the fantasy that began the first time they heard a fairy tale with a prince in it. Isn't that what princes are for, to whisk the beautiful maiden off to his castle to live happily-ever-after? Sure, some of you ... Read More ...