Just when I think I understand men, I get a wake-up call reminding me that men really are from another planet. Recently my boyfriend gave me cause to ponder this age old question Why are some things so obvious to only half of the population at any given time? Don't get me wrong. I adore, admire, respect and appreciate the male species, especially my man...except (except in girl talk is a definite substitute for "this time you really messed up and I love you...but) when he does something that seems patently hurtful to me and yet, he's totally clueless that ... Read More ...

It's no secret, men want sex and companionship. And, when a man is in a relationship he wants his partner to be both his sexmate and soulmate. In order to understand what a guy thinks a sexmate and a soulmate are, you have to stop thinking like a woman. Soulmate Remember, he's looking for companionship not competition. He wants someone he can have fun with. A woman who will, like his dog, accept him unconditionally. Women have lots of best friends. Most men don't. A man wants his partner to be his best friend. Like all best friends, you listen ... Read More ...

You can either flirt with success or flirt with disaster. It's up to you but I'm going to tell you how to be a flirt and be great at it. There's no mystery to flirting. Flirting is just your own way of letting someone know you would like to know them better. There is a secret to flirting. The secret is to feel so good about yourself that you glow. And when you glow, you just ooze sex appeal. That glow "fills up the room" and sends out a vibe that makes you irresistible. People can't help but be attracted ... Read More ...

A woman, more than anything else, wants to be cherished. And she wants to be with a man who will cherish her, value her and make her feel safe. She wants a man she can trust. Trust allows her to be vulnerable and receptive to him. Women don't want Mr. Macho, they want Super Hero. Super Heroes are good guys who are a little sensitive, can be vulnerable, and are not afraid to show their feelings. Super Heroes know they have feelings and they know it's okay to have them. They are confident that they have "the right stuff", which ... Read More ...