Words whispered into your lover's ears will have a wonderfully stimulating effect. Due to the fact that the ears are full of nerve endings, whispering sweet nothings will not only bring pleasure in response to your sugary words, but will excite the erogenous zones. Sweet nothings are words that are full of love and romance, gently whispered into your lover's ears. Women respond greatly to sweet nothings and having their necks kissed. When cuddling and embracing, try adding sweet nothings to increase and heighten the romantic atmosphere. Gently blowing in the ears, and whispering will bring arousal and pleasure, and ... Read More ...

Has your sex life been a bit neglected lately? Its not like you don't care but well, it's just finding the time and energy. It seems impossible some days because there's work and cleaning and working out and grocery shopping and cooking dinner, laundry, kids, family commitments, friends, ironing! When you do get horizontal you pass out within minutes. Or you're not in the mood. Or you just can't be bothered. Soon enough a month has passed and you can't remember the last time you had sex. And when was the last time you kissed your partner and I mean ... Read More ...

Let's avoid "the usual" advice. By now you probably know how sensitive his head is, and have a repertoire of blow job techniques that he loves. BUT, what if there was a move you've never tried, and he has never experienced, that could blow his mind in NEW ways? You want it, right! Here are five tips, tricks and ways to lick and suck his penis that you might not have tried yet. Surprise your man tonight! 1. Secret Tongue Magic With as much, or as little, of his penis in your mouth as you like - squeeze your lips ... Read More ...

Did you know that women can have several different types of orgasms? That’s right. Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved with the G-spot. But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her G-spot is the hard part! Here’s an A-to-Z on everything you need to know… 1. How to find the G-spot First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather than an actual 'spot.' The G-spot is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) You'll know when you've found ... Read More ...

You see a lot of articles about what men can do during sex to make it better for the woman, but there's a lot less information - and opinion - on the mistakes women make. So, to set the record straight, here's our list of ten things for women to avoid. 1. Expecting him to think like a woman We've all seen loads of books with titles like "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" which highlight an unfortunate difference between the sexes. Men and women don't think the same way - and while we're not going to get ... Read More ...

Did you know that people who try to spice up their lovemaking, often make their experiences LESS fulfilling? It's true. Over the years, I've seen couples make the same mistakes over and over again, when trying to improve their love lives, and I'd like to teach you how to overcome and avoid these problems. Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them? MISTAKE #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new things Have you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think? Believe it or not, ... Read More ...

Sexperts claim that it takes about three minutes for the typical man to get in the mood. If, during any three random minutes, he sees a picture of a naked woman, thinks about a naked woman, or crawls into bed with a naked woman, he's hotter than The Everglades in August. For the typical woman, however, the story is much different. It takes about 24 hours of romantic foreplay for a woman to become aroused. By foreplay, I'm not talking about hugging, kissing, and caressing-although all of that is perfectly fine, especially during the final few minutes of the 24-hour ... Read More ...

I once knew a salsa instructor in Spain who was scrawny with a jacked up grill, but women flocked to him. It wasn't just the swivel hips. They stood around him, giggling to each other about how he was just so sensual. That is because he really paid attention to them. He noted a nice perfume and complimented new haircuts. When he spoke to a woman, he looked her in the eye, and he listened to what she said. He appreciated every detail that made a woman pleasing, and she appreciated him back. You don't have to be a Spanish ... Read More ...

A lot of you want to turn your guy on. But, not everyone wants to talk about big, throbbing organs and things you'd only hear in a porn flick. You want it to be sensual as much as sexual. Heartfelt as much as horny. Romantic as much as randy. Luckily, you've got me. Well you don't actually have me, my fiancee does. But you've got my help. So, what do you say to drive a man wild without sounding cheesy, or like a sailor on shore leave? And how? Whisper. You know why they call 'em "sweet nothings"? Because you ... Read More ...

Write him an erotic story featuring you both as the leads. Take a rather provocative picture of yourself with a digital camera...you in sexy lingerie, or you in a sexy position, or you naked. A tripod and camera with delay feature may be a tool you will need. Get a piece of cardboard the same size and glue the printed picture on the cardboard. Now draw puzzle pieces on the picture and use a sharp pair of scissors to cut around the pieces on your cardboard picture puzzle. Have the pieces sent a few at a time, via courier to ... Read More ...

Men are full of surprises. And bedroom behaviour is no exception. Men have their secrets and they want their wives to know them. It's true that all men have sex secrets. Not the darm sultry secrets of an affair, but a restraint in sharing some cravings or the details of his day-to-day thoughts and actions with his wife - inside and out of the marriage. He may not reveal romance strategies or feelings of vulnerability or shame. These are things that men may have learned, over time, to keep to themselves. Because a man does not always openly express his ... Read More ...

The day after a steamy night with your partner, send a rose to her at work or at home with a note that says something along the lines of: "Last night was extraordinary/really special. I love you." This is a "must do" after the first time you make love. (submitted by Monica) Hang a pair of your sexiest panties on his rear-view mirror. Or, if that is too risky, hang them on the outside doorknob just before he arrives home. Be waiting inside wearing whatever you like, but no panties. (submitted by Devin) Recreate your favorite movie love scene! My ... Read More ...

Lovemaking isn't just for slender women. But large women who have body image issues often have problems in relationships because they think that men want a woman with a perfect body. Although a man isn't going to pass up the chance to look at such a woman, the perfect body is not at the top of a man's want list. You don't have to have that perfect body if you want to enjoy great lovemaking with your man. Here's what men really want from their women: Passion Men love passionate women. A lusty interest in intimacy will wow a man ... Read More ...

1. Hide the Honey This game requires a blindfold and a small amount of honey, chocolate syrup, nutella or caramel...and no clothes. Blindfold your partner, then hide a drop of honey somewhere on your body. Without using his or her hands, and without the aid of sight, your partner has to find that drop of honey...with their mouth. :) 2. What's Your Fantasy? You and your partner should each write down 5, or so, fantasies you have that could be acted out together at the time you are playing the game. Put all of the fantasies in a jar and ... Read More ...

Historically, we guys have been made fun of, because sometimes all it takes is a shift in the breeze to get our motors going. And yes, by and large, we're more visual when it comes to getting turned on. But you've stumbled upon something that many women don't know. We like to be complimented, chased after, and once in a while, even leered at. What's in a guy's head? To quote Cheap Trick: "I want YOU to want ME!" So, here are 10 sure-fire ways to love and lust after your fella. Be specific. Don't go for the blanket statement ... Read More ...

These 3 mistakes all come from the "land of good intentions", but still, they wreak merciless havoc on the lives of countless men. I'm referring to the following: 1. The Paradox of Trying Too Hard 2. The Paradox of Thinking Too Much 3. The Paradox of the Simple Moves 1. THE PARADOX OF TRYING TOO HARD Great sex will always be about FLOW. One doesn't need to press for it, trying too hard on any area will cause you to mess it up and that's a guarantee. The tragedy is that most men don't even see this one coming and ... Read More ...

A great way to add spice to your love life, and keep your partner's interest up (so to speak), as well as your own, is to talk sexy. The best way to describe what I mean is to give you some examples. IN BED: During lovemaking, in those times of rest, in between the high energy times, talk about what you just did and how it made you feel; what your partner did and how it made you feel; how your partner reacted to something you did. Say things like, "When I swirled my tongue around the tip of your ... Read More ...

Replace the boring white light bulbs in your bedroom lamp and put in some red light bulbs instead. You can get the red light bulbs in any hardware store. And believe me red light makes you look young, and thin - you have no lines or wrinkles, I'm sure that's why they have the red light districts. When your mate turns on the lamp and sees the red light and says, "What is this?" You tell them, that red is the color of love and I wanted to fill the whole room with my love for you. ... Read More ...

One of the most common complaints I receive in my relationship counseling work is "We hardly ever have sex." Since you might be addicted to the anger and complaining around this issue, I want to make sure you do ALL the right things so you get to continue being angry and complaining about it. Be Angry and Complain Given that anger and complaining are not at all erotic, be sure to continue to be angry and complain about the lack of sex. Your anger and complaints are SURE to turn your partner off. Approach Your Partner Needy Both men and ... Read More ...

Hello Doc, I?m sure you've been asked this question before. My girlfriend does not want to perform oral sex on me. Is there a way I can get her to change her mind? I mean, ever since the day she told me, I've been fine with it. I told her I had no problem with it. And she doesn?t know that I feel this way. I much rather have her do it than not do it. So is there a way to get her to change her mind at all? ================= Hello! You bet there is. First of all, you ... Read More ...