What's a sure-sign that he's absolutely crazy about you? When he showers you with flowers? When he gets jealous the minute you look at other men? Or when he stays at your place every night for a week? Actually - none of the above. If you'd like to be sure you're not kidding yourself when you imagine the two of you together in the future - look to the little things he does, not the big showy romantic gestures. 10 Signs He's Serious About Your Relationship Here are the most 10 obvious signs that he's serious about the relationship. 1. ... Read More ...

Let's face it, you never get a second chance to make a first impression! That's why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show her your best on the very first date. And in actual fact, there are 5 things that men consistently do on first dates that totally destroy their chances of seeing the woman again, and the worst part is they think they're doing it right! Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your chances of success on your first date: Mistake #1 - Buying Gifts Bringing chocolate or flowers on a ... Read More ...

The afternoon before a date is like the foundation of a building. Get it right, and the rest seems effortless. Get it wrong, and you end up wishing you'd never started. Preparation is all, you see – your dazzling wit and angelic face won't get you a snog if you had a faceful of garlic for lunch, even on a really good hair day. Read on for a few more ways to sabotage a date that hasn't even started yet. 1. Conduct a private investigation Hit your mental back button to a world before Google or Facebook. Pretty much the ... Read More ...

Here is some amazing insight that came about THIS MORNING during a coaching call with one of the guys who has put me to work for him. If you are into online dating at all (which you should be), you'll want to pay close attention.  And if you're not, now may be the best time to START. As you may know already, I talk a lot about how guys ruin their chances right from the start in their online profiles...simply by FOLLOWING THE DIRECTIONS. It's no secret to anyone who is successful online that Match.com et al really do not give out ... Read More ...

Many men and women in an attempt to create that sense of mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase end up becoming too elusive (playing impossible to get) that the other person assumes they're not interested or the other person after a while gets tired, gives up and moves on. The whole point of "playing hard to get" is to demonstrate your VALUE to others and you can't do that by being too available (clingy, needy or eager to please) nor by simply making yourself unavailable (saying "no" all the time or making yourself too scarce) or even by ... Read More ...

Are you actively flirting with a guy you see frequently but having trouble knowing for sure whether he might want to get together? It can be frustrating not knowing whether he may feel the same way as you do. Wouldn?t it be great to be able to read his mind? While that may not be possible, there are a number of telltale signs that he is probably very interested. Here are 7 of those signs: Sign #1: He uses your name often when he speaks to you: If he likes you, your name is literally music to his ears and ... Read More ...

I refer to what I call the "Big Four" quite a bit. Yet, it has occurred to me that I've never devoted an article to making sure you've got the exact concept I'm talking about down with pinpoint accuracy. "It's about freakin' time", someone said. And I have no arguments for you there. Better late than never though. So let's fix the situation. The "Big Four", in principle, are the most basic, fundamental factors that decide whether a woman is attracted to you or not. Get them right, and women WILL respond powerfully to you. Ignore them (or worse?be ignorant ... Read More ...

We asked over 100 men "How could a woman you've never met know you're interested in her? (you only see her around, but you've never talked)" To sum up the responses...a lot of men relied on smiles and eye contact, a surprisingly large number of them will just tell you. Here are all the responses: "I go out of my way to make eye contact and smile, and try to get a vibe from her." "A lot of it is eye contact and tone of voice." "From body-language, from common friends etc." "I catch her eyes and wait for her ... Read More ...

Let's say you're single. But not happy about it. You're tired of seeing everyone else fall in love. You want your piece of the pie. So, you're out there, looking for romance. It's not easy, either. How sure are you that you're looking in the right place? Maybe while you're busy trying to meet people at the laundromat, Mr. or Miss Right is at work. Think about it. Romance can come from anywhere. Finding it is the hardest game you'll ever play. And more often than not, it shows up where you're not looking for it. That can really suck. ... Read More ...

At the core of this issue is how differently men and women view marriage. For starters, most women are preparing to get married from day one, when they first fell in love with their daddy. Didn't you and your friends pretend wedding? By contrast, how many little boys were playing wedding? For women, getting married is a dream-come-true; the culmination of the fantasy that began the first time they heard a fairy tale with a prince in it. Isn't that what princes are for, to whisk the beautiful maiden off to his castle to live happily-ever-after? Sure, some of you ... Read More ...

One of the things I had a lot of fun sharing on radio shows is my list of Five Reasons Nice Men don't Call. Here's what men have told me... She said too much. Men tell me that many women go into way too much detail about their past relationships, especially of a sexual nature. Men don't want to hear it, even if they ask you to tell them. She talked about all the bad things every man ever did to her...and she blames me. Men hate it when a woman blames them for what some jerk before them did ... Read More ...

How many of you were older brothers? Or how many of you knew guys who were, back in middle or high school? What was the biggest complaint about the younger kid? If you had a standard relationship, the biggest strain was ALWAYS that your younger sibling hung around too much. There you were, trying to play video games, and he was always butting in, usually being embarrassing for some unplaced reason. You wanted to go to the movies with your friends, and she wanted to come, and your mom made you take him. It was so ANNOYING! You had this ... Read More ...

There is no surefire, 100% guaranteed way to know if someone likes you as more than a friend. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying. There are, however, certain signs you can look for that will give you a pretty good idea if your friend or acquaintance is interested in being more than friends. 1. Test his/her Personal Space Everyone has something called "personal space". It is like a bubble around us that we don't like people trespassing into. If someone gets too close, we instinctively move away, and if they get too close again we move away again. When ... Read More ...

All of us have experienced it at one time or another. We come home from a first date, swimming in euphoria, sure that we've just spent the first night of the rest of our lives with our true soul mate. Mr. or Miss Destiny. The One. And then, we never hear from them again. As we sit by the phone, waiting for that second date call (or call-back) we first begin to doubt the efficiency of the phone company. Then we start to wonder if Mr./Miss Right had to suddenly leave the country in the middle of the night, without ... Read More ...

You've met someone who stirs you in ways you've only imagined. E-mail from them arrives in your mailbox and you smile. Their voice on the other end of the line makes your stomach flutter. The sight of them makes all your worries seem unimportant and their happiness all that matters- until you hear a child scream for them and they have to deal with the situation in another part of the house. You snap out of your amorous state of mind and anxiously wonder if you are ready to deal with the other part of their life- the kids. I'm ... Read More ...

Well, it's bound to happen. Who hasn't wanted someone they work with? And how many of you have gone for it? And how many of you have succeeded? Dating at work is a challenge. It's tough. It's work. But, it happens all the time, and it's not a bad thing. For as scandalous as people try to make it, it's not much different than what we were taught our whole lives. Growing up, all the new and interesting people you met were at school. For up to 18 years, school IS your life. You start off eating and sleeping there. ... Read More ...

I am going to tell you about a powerful technique for attracting women. I will speak of it from my own perspective, but this does not mean that I am the only woman out there that you will make weak in the knees. This simple seduction trick that I'm speaking of is saying a woman's name. There is nothing like hearing a guy I'm attracted to say my name...especially when it takes me by surprise. Catching me offguard is good for you because use of my name at those times will not go unnoticed. I have seen my attraction level ... Read More ...

Listening is one of the most powerful tools you have in attracting women. By being interested in her life you are subtley communicating that you are interested in her. This is one of the better ways to make her feel special, cherished and important. Ways to Show a Woman You are Listening If she has had a bad day and is venting to you, encourage her to tell you more. Ask lots of questions so that she can 'get it all out' and does not feel as though she is burdening you with her problems. If she mentions that she ... Read More ...

Are you wondering how to communicate with that new man in your life? Or maybe you are just wondering about the next man in your life? New or old, it's never too late to learn how to communicate in the language of love. Maybe you've seen the tomboyish girl that somehow has men flocking around her. If you stopped turning green with envy for a moment, you'd notice why she was a man magnet. She just sort of fit herself into him, like a piece of a jigsaw puzzle that he didn't even know was missing. Instead of rolling your ... Read More ...

How do I know if he (or she) is interested? Good question. From the email I'm getting, this is something on lots of people's minds no matter the age or gender of who is asking. How do you really know if someone likes you? What are the signs you should be looking for? How should you act, what should you do, and so it goes. These questions are as complicated as the people asking the questions are and that's pretty darn complicated! The honest answer is that there is no way to really, 100%, know how another person feels. Sometimes ... Read More ...