What's a sure-sign that he's absolutely crazy about you? When he showers you with flowers? When he gets jealous the minute you look at other men? Or when he stays at your place every night for a week? Actually - none of the above. If you'd like to be sure you're not kidding yourself when you imagine the two of you together in the future - look to the little things he does, not the big showy romantic gestures. 10 Signs He's Serious About Your Relationship Here are the most 10 obvious signs that he's serious about the relationship. 1. ... Read More ...

Let's face it, you never get a second chance to make a first impression! That's why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show her your best on the very first date. And in actual fact, there are 5 things that men consistently do on first dates that totally destroy their chances of seeing the woman again, and the worst part is they think they're doing it right! Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your chances of success on your first date: Mistake #1 - Buying Gifts Bringing chocolate or flowers on a ... Read More ...

The afternoon before a date is like the foundation of a building. Get it right, and the rest seems effortless. Get it wrong, and you end up wishing you'd never started. Preparation is all, you see – your dazzling wit and angelic face won't get you a snog if you had a faceful of garlic for lunch, even on a really good hair day. Read on for a few more ways to sabotage a date that hasn't even started yet. 1. Conduct a private investigation Hit your mental back button to a world before Google or Facebook. Pretty much the ... Read More ...

Here is some amazing insight that came about THIS MORNING during a coaching call with one of the guys who has put me to work for him. If you are into online dating at all (which you should be), you'll want to pay close attention.  And if you're not, now may be the best time to START. As you may know already, I talk a lot about how guys ruin their chances right from the start in their online profiles...simply by FOLLOWING THE DIRECTIONS. It's no secret to anyone who is successful online that Match.com et al really do not give out ... Read More ...

Many men and women in an attempt to create that sense of mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase end up becoming too elusive (playing impossible to get) that the other person assumes they're not interested or the other person after a while gets tired, gives up and moves on. The whole point of "playing hard to get" is to demonstrate your VALUE to others and you can't do that by being too available (clingy, needy or eager to please) nor by simply making yourself unavailable (saying "no" all the time or making yourself too scarce) or even by ... Read More ...

Are you actively flirting with a guy you see frequently but having trouble knowing for sure whether he might want to get together? It can be frustrating not knowing whether he may feel the same way as you do. Wouldn?t it be great to be able to read his mind? While that may not be possible, there are a number of telltale signs that he is probably very interested. Here are 7 of those signs: Sign #1: He uses your name often when he speaks to you: If he likes you, your name is literally music to his ears and ... Read More ...

I refer to what I call the "Big Four" quite a bit. Yet, it has occurred to me that I've never devoted an article to making sure you've got the exact concept I'm talking about down with pinpoint accuracy. "It's about freakin' time", someone said. And I have no arguments for you there. Better late than never though. So let's fix the situation. The "Big Four", in principle, are the most basic, fundamental factors that decide whether a woman is attracted to you or not. Get them right, and women WILL respond powerfully to you. Ignore them (or worse?be ignorant ... Read More ...

We asked over 100 men "How could a woman you've never met know you're interested in her? (you only see her around, but you've never talked)" To sum up the responses...a lot of men relied on smiles and eye contact, a surprisingly large number of them will just tell you. Here are all the responses: "I go out of my way to make eye contact and smile, and try to get a vibe from her." "A lot of it is eye contact and tone of voice." "From body-language, from common friends etc." "I catch her eyes and wait for her ... Read More ...

Let's say you're single. But not happy about it. You're tired of seeing everyone else fall in love. You want your piece of the pie. So, you're out there, looking for romance. It's not easy, either. How sure are you that you're looking in the right place? Maybe while you're busy trying to meet people at the laundromat, Mr. or Miss Right is at work. Think about it. Romance can come from anywhere. Finding it is the hardest game you'll ever play. And more often than not, it shows up where you're not looking for it. That can really suck. ... Read More ...

At the core of this issue is how differently men and women view marriage. For starters, most women are preparing to get married from day one, when they first fell in love with their daddy. Didn't you and your friends pretend wedding? By contrast, how many little boys were playing wedding? For women, getting married is a dream-come-true; the culmination of the fantasy that began the first time they heard a fairy tale with a prince in it. Isn't that what princes are for, to whisk the beautiful maiden off to his castle to live happily-ever-after? Sure, some of you ... Read More ...