Let's face it, you never get a second chance to make a first impression! That's why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show her your best on the very first date. And in actual fact, there are 5 things that men consistently do on first dates that totally destroy their chances of seeing the woman again, and the worst part is they think they're doing it right! Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your chances of success on your first date: Mistake #1 - Buying Gifts Bringing chocolate or flowers on a ... Read More ...

Here is some amazing insight that came about THIS MORNING during a coaching call with one of the guys who has put me to work for him. If you are into online dating at all (which you should be), you'll want to pay close attention.  And if you're not, now may be the best time to START. As you may know already, I talk a lot about how guys ruin their chances right from the start in their online profiles...simply by FOLLOWING THE DIRECTIONS. It's no secret to anyone who is successful online that Match.com et al really do not give out ... Read More ...

I refer to what I call the "Big Four" quite a bit. Yet, it has occurred to me that I've never devoted an article to making sure you've got the exact concept I'm talking about down with pinpoint accuracy. "It's about freakin' time", someone said. And I have no arguments for you there. Better late than never though. So let's fix the situation. The "Big Four", in principle, are the most basic, fundamental factors that decide whether a woman is attracted to you or not. Get them right, and women WILL respond powerfully to you. Ignore them (or worse?be ignorant ... Read More ...

How many of you were older brothers? Or how many of you knew guys who were, back in middle or high school? What was the biggest complaint about the younger kid? If you had a standard relationship, the biggest strain was ALWAYS that your younger sibling hung around too much. There you were, trying to play video games, and he was always butting in, usually being embarrassing for some unplaced reason. You wanted to go to the movies with your friends, and she wanted to come, and your mom made you take him. It was so ANNOYING! You had this ... Read More ...

I am going to tell you about a powerful technique for attracting women. I will speak of it from my own perspective, but this does not mean that I am the only woman out there that you will make weak in the knees. This simple seduction trick that I'm speaking of is saying a woman's name. There is nothing like hearing a guy I'm attracted to say my name...especially when it takes me by surprise. Catching me offguard is good for you because use of my name at those times will not go unnoticed. I have seen my attraction level ... Read More ...

Listening is one of the most powerful tools you have in attracting women. By being interested in her life you are subtley communicating that you are interested in her. This is one of the better ways to make her feel special, cherished and important. Ways to Show a Woman You are Listening If she has had a bad day and is venting to you, encourage her to tell you more. Ask lots of questions so that she can 'get it all out' and does not feel as though she is burdening you with her problems. If she mentions that she ... Read More ...

By golly, you've actually met a woman. Maybe you're in bar. Maybe you're at the gym or laundromat. Maybe she's someone you know from work. Or maybe, even, you're actually out on a date. In any event, now you've got to do something scarey, something unpredictable, something with the power to launch a future romantic relationship, or end one before it even gets started. YOU'VE GOT TO TALK TO HER. What do you talk about? Should you tell her about your childhood, your therapist, your plans for the future, the wart on your big toe? What if you can't think ... Read More ...

I remember being on a dinner date, after the waitress had brought the food and left I noticed that she had forgot to bring the extra sauce I had asked for. It was no big deal but I did make a comment mostly to myself: "oh, she forgot the extra sauce". My date heard me and without being asked he asked the waitress for more when she walked by. I was sooo impressed. I really felt taken care of, and closer to him. A couple can also anticipate each other's needs to help keep the romantic feelings and intimacy alive. ... Read More ...

I've been spending quite a bit of time lately interviewing women about what it's like for them to interact with guys these days. I also have the distinct pleasure of hanging out with my main squeeze Emily every day-and reading emails sent to us by literally thousands of women on her list. Taking ALL OF THAT information from SO MANY WOMEN into consideration, I've pulled together some SHOCKING CONCLUSIONS regarding any "approach anxiety" you may be suffering from. Let's just get right to the list: Women Usually Have No Idea That Guys Deal With Approach Anxiety This was a revelation ... Read More ...

Following are Twelve Simple Secrets that you should know about her. When you're done reading them you'll have a better grip on what to do to make her smile a little brighter. Secret #1: Romance is the key to sex Romance is routine maintenance--yeah, like your car -- to keep things running smoothly. Remember all those romantic things you did to win her in the first place? Keep doing them now and then. If you let her know often that you care, she stays open and responsive to your sexual overtures. Romance is all the little things you do to ... Read More ...