What's a sure-sign that he's absolutely crazy about you? When he showers you with flowers? When he gets jealous the minute you look at other men? Or when he stays at your place every night for a week? Actually - none of the above. If you'd like to be sure you're not kidding yourself when you imagine the two of you together in the future - look to the little things he does, not the big showy romantic gestures. 10 Signs He's Serious About Your Relationship Here are the most 10 obvious signs that he's serious about the relationship. 1. ... Read More ...

Many men and women in an attempt to create that sense of mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase end up becoming too elusive (playing impossible to get) that the other person assumes they're not interested or the other person after a while gets tired, gives up and moves on. The whole point of "playing hard to get" is to demonstrate your VALUE to others and you can't do that by being too available (clingy, needy or eager to please) nor by simply making yourself unavailable (saying "no" all the time or making yourself too scarce) or even by ... Read More ...

Are you actively flirting with a guy you see frequently but having trouble knowing for sure whether he might want to get together? It can be frustrating not knowing whether he may feel the same way as you do. Wouldn?t it be great to be able to read his mind? While that may not be possible, there are a number of telltale signs that he is probably very interested. Here are 7 of those signs: Sign #1: He uses your name often when he speaks to you: If he likes you, your name is literally music to his ears and ... Read More ...

We asked over 100 men "How could a woman you've never met know you're interested in her? (you only see her around, but you've never talked)" To sum up the responses...a lot of men relied on smiles and eye contact, a surprisingly large number of them will just tell you. Here are all the responses: "I go out of my way to make eye contact and smile, and try to get a vibe from her." "A lot of it is eye contact and tone of voice." "From body-language, from common friends etc." "I catch her eyes and wait for her ... Read More ...

At the core of this issue is how differently men and women view marriage. For starters, most women are preparing to get married from day one, when they first fell in love with their daddy. Didn't you and your friends pretend wedding? By contrast, how many little boys were playing wedding? For women, getting married is a dream-come-true; the culmination of the fantasy that began the first time they heard a fairy tale with a prince in it. Isn't that what princes are for, to whisk the beautiful maiden off to his castle to live happily-ever-after? Sure, some of you ... Read More ...

One of the things I had a lot of fun sharing on radio shows is my list of Five Reasons Nice Men don't Call. Here's what men have told me... She said too much. Men tell me that many women go into way too much detail about their past relationships, especially of a sexual nature. Men don't want to hear it, even if they ask you to tell them. She talked about all the bad things every man ever did to her...and she blames me. Men hate it when a woman blames them for what some jerk before them did ... Read More ...

Are you wondering how to communicate with that new man in your life? Or maybe you are just wondering about the next man in your life? New or old, it's never too late to learn how to communicate in the language of love. Maybe you've seen the tomboyish girl that somehow has men flocking around her. If you stopped turning green with envy for a moment, you'd notice why she was a man magnet. She just sort of fit herself into him, like a piece of a jigsaw puzzle that he didn't even know was missing. Instead of rolling your ... Read More ...

Have you ever been interested in a man without knowing whether he was single...and you didn't know how to ask him without it being really obvious? This happens to most of us, so we've consulted two guys and asked "What questions can a woman ask to find if a guy is single, without being obvious?" Joe Dlhopolsky Says: Try to find out who he does things with, especially in dating type situations. If he's married or dating someone seriously, then it will be difficult to keep her out of the conversation when you are talking about things that he must ... Read More ...

It's no secret, men want sex and companionship. And, when a man is in a relationship he wants his partner to be both his sexmate and soulmate. In order to understand what a guy thinks a sexmate and a soulmate are, you have to stop thinking like a woman. Soulmate Remember, he's looking for companionship not competition. He wants someone he can have fun with. A woman who will, like his dog, accept him unconditionally. Women have lots of best friends. Most men don't. A man wants his partner to be his best friend. Like all best friends, you listen ... Read More ...

Express sincere interest in something he does that he takes pride in. This could be a sport he plays, volunteer work he does, a hobby, his job, etc. If you would like to know more, ask questions. If you would like to watch him play hockey, go watch one of his games. Be sincere, don't pretend to be interested in something that totally bores you, just to please him. Laugh at his jokes. Be careful not to overdo it, you'll be sure to annoy him if you turn into a giggling teenager whenever he speaks. Just don't be shy about ... Read More ...

Everyone loves to hear a few words of kindness, praises and good thoughts that someone has for them. So do guys! Yes, you might be thinking that women have gained the only right to compliments; then you are living in the Stone Age. Wake up sleeping beauties as we bring you the top 5 reasons that will make your man tickle with amusement and make him feel loved, important and better human being. These tips will definitely make a man fall for you. 5 things men love to hear on a date... "Then what happened?" This question would surely make ... Read More ...

Love is a mystery for most of us and often, we feel insecure about whether or not it will last. Men crave to be understood more than you'll ever know. Here are a few simple secrets every woman should know: Men need to feel successful, so-much-so that, to a man, failure is death. For them, if they fail, they no longer feel like men. It's why men commit suicide more often than women.  Men are most attracted to happy women who genuinely like themselves and who enjoy being women. When you're happy, he feels successful. When you're a bottomless pit ... Read More ...

What causes a man to enjoy the company of one woman over another? It is all about how he feels about himself when he is with her. If you want to attract men you can start by making him feel good. One of the key things a woman can do to arouse good feelings in a man is compliment him. Start with his physical appearance. "Our society fails to recognize how much the male of the species needs approval of his physical appearance", says Ellen Kreidman, author of Light his Fire (Dell Publishing, 1989). "Most men, believe it or not, ... Read More ...

Question: The guy I'm dating doesn't open doors for me, in the car or at a restaurant and it's bugging me. How do I let him know I'm a lady and want to be treated special when we go out? Shawna's Answer: You can handle this in a variety of ways. First, act and dress like a lady if you want to be treated like one. I don't mean all stuffy and covered up either. But there are lots of messages a person sends with their apparel and body language. Second, if you want him to open the car door ... Read More ...

How can you tell if that guy you've been dating is actually falling for you or just fooling around? Six simple questions will tell you all you need to know. When does he usually call you for a Saturday night date? a) Two weeks in advance b) Usually by Wednesday or Thursday c) The day before d) 10 minutes before he shows up How often does he call you during the week? a) Twice a day b) 3-7 Times a week c) Once a week d) 10 minutes before he shows up How often do you see each other? a) ... Read More ...

Most of us know that women want to be treated like ladies, we feel drawn to men who make us feel feminine. What we don't all know, however, is that men want to be treated like men, just as much as women want to be treated like ladies. "When a woman makes a man feel masculine, his body is filled with the fire of desire to get close...he wants to be with her, to get to know her, and, in some magical manner, his life suddenly has more meaning.", says John Gray, author of Mars and Venus on a Date ... Read More ...

Smiling is essential for a man who has sensitivity. Without a smile he assumes you're not interested and he doesn't want to be pushy or risk a rude put-down. Eye contact that lasts just a little longer than is comfortable. Watch how you want to drop your eyes when you look at a man you find attractive. Begin to allow that look to linger...just a little longer, with a hint of a smile. Definitely sends a message but yet keeps it feminine, which men love. In conversation, touch his arm a couple of times. That breaks that barrier and releases ... Read More ...

Okay, ladies, I know you have these conversations, because I have them all the time with my girlfriends: how do you know a man is ready to commit to you? We?ve all heard the conventional wisdom that a man should pursue you, should show an interest in being with you, should take you out and wine and dine you. But, once you get past all these ?qualifications?, how do you know when a man is really ready to commit - to you? I am going to look at that question today in the reverse, and give you the 10 signs ... Read More ...

There are certain men who crave adventure in their relationships and also in their lives. This is the craving to be challenged, grow and become all they are capable of. For some the call comes in connection to work, sports or feats of daring; others hear it in relationship to women, who they see as their primary challenge. This need for adventure in relationship can manifest in various ways. Some men are drawn to disturbed and disturbing women. They find this exciting and stimulating, despite the difficulties that come along. Also, they can then use this as an excuse for ... Read More ...

Cosmopolitan Magazine has a nifty column that provides relationship advice to women from the perspective of a man called Ask A Guy. A most recent column featured the question of a reader wanting to know whether a guy was interested in her. While, the inner workings of the male psyche may be a mystery to women, situations such as these are often self explanatory. It doesn't take a guy or even your girlfriends to tell you that he doesn't like you. The odds are if you have to ask, he probably just isn't that into you to paraphrase Greg Behrendt. ... Read More ...