What's a sure-sign that he's absolutely crazy about you? When he showers you with flowers? When he gets jealous the minute you look at other men? Or when he stays at your place every night for a week? Actually - none of the above. If you'd like to be sure you're not kidding yourself when you imagine the two of you together in the future - look to the little things he does, not the big showy romantic gestures. 10 Signs He's Serious About Your Relationship Here are the most 10 obvious signs that he's serious about the relationship. 1. ... Read More ...

Many men and women in an attempt to create that sense of mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase end up becoming too elusive (playing impossible to get) that the other person assumes they're not interested or the other person after a while gets tired, gives up and moves on. The whole point of "playing hard to get" is to demonstrate your VALUE to others and you can't do that by being too available (clingy, needy or eager to please) nor by simply making yourself unavailable (saying "no" all the time or making yourself too scarce) or even by ... Read More ...

Are you actively flirting with a guy you see frequently but having trouble knowing for sure whether he might want to get together? It can be frustrating not knowing whether he may feel the same way as you do. Wouldn?t it be great to be able to read his mind? While that may not be possible, there are a number of telltale signs that he is probably very interested. Here are 7 of those signs: Sign #1: He uses your name often when he speaks to you: If he likes you, your name is literally music to his ears and ... Read More ...

We asked over 100 men "How could a woman you've never met know you're interested in her? (you only see her around, but you've never talked)" To sum up the responses...a lot of men relied on smiles and eye contact, a surprisingly large number of them will just tell you. Here are all the responses: "I go out of my way to make eye contact and smile, and try to get a vibe from her." "A lot of it is eye contact and tone of voice." "From body-language, from common friends etc." "I catch her eyes and wait for her ... Read More ...

At the core of this issue is how differently men and women view marriage. For starters, most women are preparing to get married from day one, when they first fell in love with their daddy. Didn't you and your friends pretend wedding? By contrast, how many little boys were playing wedding? For women, getting married is a dream-come-true; the culmination of the fantasy that began the first time they heard a fairy tale with a prince in it. Isn't that what princes are for, to whisk the beautiful maiden off to his castle to live happily-ever-after? Sure, some of you ... Read More ...

One of the things I had a lot of fun sharing on radio shows is my list of Five Reasons Nice Men don't Call. Here's what men have told me... She said too much. Men tell me that many women go into way too much detail about their past relationships, especially of a sexual nature. Men don't want to hear it, even if they ask you to tell them. She talked about all the bad things every man ever did to her...and she blames me. Men hate it when a woman blames them for what some jerk before them did ... Read More ...

Are you wondering how to communicate with that new man in your life? Or maybe you are just wondering about the next man in your life? New or old, it's never too late to learn how to communicate in the language of love. Maybe you've seen the tomboyish girl that somehow has men flocking around her. If you stopped turning green with envy for a moment, you'd notice why she was a man magnet. She just sort of fit herself into him, like a piece of a jigsaw puzzle that he didn't even know was missing. Instead of rolling your ... Read More ...

Have you ever been interested in a man without knowing whether he was single...and you didn't know how to ask him without it being really obvious? This happens to most of us, so we've consulted two guys and asked "What questions can a woman ask to find if a guy is single, without being obvious?" Joe Dlhopolsky Says: Try to find out who he does things with, especially in dating type situations. If he's married or dating someone seriously, then it will be difficult to keep her out of the conversation when you are talking about things that he must ... Read More ...

It's no secret, men want sex and companionship. And, when a man is in a relationship he wants his partner to be both his sexmate and soulmate. In order to understand what a guy thinks a sexmate and a soulmate are, you have to stop thinking like a woman. Soulmate Remember, he's looking for companionship not competition. He wants someone he can have fun with. A woman who will, like his dog, accept him unconditionally. Women have lots of best friends. Most men don't. A man wants his partner to be his best friend. Like all best friends, you listen ... Read More ...

Express sincere interest in something he does that he takes pride in. This could be a sport he plays, volunteer work he does, a hobby, his job, etc. If you would like to know more, ask questions. If you would like to watch him play hockey, go watch one of his games. Be sincere, don't pretend to be interested in something that totally bores you, just to please him. Laugh at his jokes. Be careful not to overdo it, you'll be sure to annoy him if you turn into a giggling teenager whenever he speaks. Just don't be shy about ... Read More ...