Comments on: How to Tell if Someone Likes You

By: farouk

farouk — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 11:43:04 +0000

thanks for the info :)

By: JD

JD — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 02:39:11 +0000

My best girlfriend does this all the time. She knows what she is doing but she just enjoys flirting with no intention of getting with the guy (in anyway whatsoever). I think some girls are born to enjoy flirting.

By: The Person Whos Right

The Person Whos Right — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 18:18:25 +0000

Normally yes, but a girl who fringes at affection is not looking to get a another guys attention. Its a way of flirting, it has to be fun, not serious.

Second of all theres a difference between a shy girl and a girl who’s emotionally unstable. The same way when you were three you would push the boy you liked, that kind of “safe” flirting has transformed into sitting, brushing, and to what most guys call teasing. It may be cause shes afraid of being rejected, thats fine, but it doesn’t dismiss that being playfully flirty like she is won’t help him.

And third, just cause your a girl, Yes, Yes, Yes, a female! doesn’t veto the oppisote sex’s opinion. It may sway most men, Yes, Yes, Yes I am a male! but it is without logic or reason to think for a second that you know more about your own sex then the other does about yours. It is more common for a guy to know more about a girl and vice versa simply cause we spend so much more time observing the other.

And too didi, theres not a whole lot to go on from what your saying, anything else, did it stop abruptly the texts or slowly, things like that can tell you if you guys just grew distant or if they stopped abruptly because something came into his head which could be fear of his own feelings or fear of yours.

By: You guys - don't have a clue

You guys - don't have a clue — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 04:26:31 +0000

Ok already! I hate to say it men, but you got it all wrong. It sounds to me like yes so does like you. Have you ever thought that she is not so sure just how you feel about her. None of us want to hit on someone and have them say no. If she sits on you lap and all that, she is testing the water, but not real secure in the situation. OR, you must have seen the OR to all this. You may be her friend, and just a friend, but she may be using to to attract others. Strange? Yes but true. She may in many ways be shy, but there is something with the friendship the two of you have that allows her frisky side to show and she may want for someone to see this in her. If you like her, maybe just tell her, or start to hint around about it. Yes, Yes, Yes, I am a female and have seen the gals play this one a time or two. Remember she is just as afraid of being rejected as you. So if she likes you she may need some signs! If she is looking for anothers attention through you, you will see that one also. At any rate good luck,

By: didi

didi — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 21:27:12 +0000

I have a male friend that we were really close and I like him. we used to hangout and text each other everyday. I don;t know why since school started this year, he just doesnt reply my text or hang out with me anymore. but everytime he saw me he would hug me and stuff and bought me a perfume for my christmas gift. so i am confused either he like me or not? so can someone please help me? and he said “I LOVE YOU” over the phone on his birthday night
thanks

By: The Person Whos Right

The Person Whos Right — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 10:04:52 +0000

Look first of all, mister bad ass player ( play the game ) doesn’t know his ass from his elbow, and shaun knows more then moron number one and less about the person answering the question.

This man is not after &$**# hes after the girl, he likes her ok other wise he wouldnt be on, how to tell if she likes you, cause if he didnt like her, he wouldnt give a damn or say shes “fun” to be around.

Honestly it is completly obivious that she likes you, teases dont tease guys they dont like. Understanding teases is the answer to getting her.

1. They don’t like being hit on, they like to do the flirting, and shes hoppin on you, touching you, and basically asking you to get her naked, believe me hitting on her friend is not neccesary and has more of a chance backfiring on you then anything else.

2. Being affectionate is not her fetish. Its about having something she can’t, literally teasing isn’t a personality trait, its a game she wants you to play. Girls like these do not enjoy romance, poetry, or how well you did on your last IQ test. They are self centered, under achievers or over project their physical traits.

3. And finally grow some balls and the next time play the game, seriously shes trying to get a response out of you, like a child, and taking advantage of her “sluty” projections is actually going to make her feel cheap when really ” SHES JUST OBSESSED WITH FORPLAY “.

So if you like her… which you do, try being more of a tease yourself instead of taking mister erections quickest way to get a snob to sleep with you to prove something to her less atrractive friend, and mister I avoid confrontations. I disagree, but dont have a better option so im not going to pick a fight.

By: Lester Wood

Lester Wood — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 21:18:51 +0000

I have this female friend who brushes up against me in a flirtasious way. When at parties sits on my lap. Will make sure that her breast are pressed up against my arm or hand in such a way that it’s by accident or just casual touch. But every time I try to approach her with some affection she pushes me away. Cant figure her out. Shes fun to be with and be around, but it’s getting old.

I’d really like to know if she likes me or if she’s this way with everyone?