Replace the boring white light bulbs in your bedroom lamp and put in some red light bulbs instead. You can get the red light bulbs in any hardware store. And believe me red light makes you look young, and thin - you have no lines or wrinkles, I'm sure that's why they have the red light districts. When your mate turns on the lamp and sees the red light and says, "What is this?" You tell them, that red is the color of love and I wanted to fill the whole room with my love for you. ... Read More ...

When a couple stands at the altar and vows to love each other, "Till death do us part," they take for granted that they will be intimately connected forever. The kiss at the end of the ceremony symbolizes that connection. The kiss is the core of a relationship. It is a barometer of how things are going. A couple can be having sex but not kissing. If they are not kissing passionately the relationship is in trouble. Most couples aren't even aware of when their relationship started changing. What started out as a passionate relationship, over time becomes a friendship. ... Read More ...

This week I want you to put sex on the calendar. You heard me right! Yes, I want you to plan for it. I know some of you are saying, "What about the spontaneity?" It was never spontaneous. In the beginning you always planned to be together. Let me ask you something. What do you think a honeymoon is, if not an entire week of planned sex? And everyone has the time of his or her life planning for that... sometimes a year in advance. You go out and buy special lingerie, undergarments, cologne, perfume and it's exciting, knowing that ... Read More ...

Now I know that for some of you this will be a challenge. We all learned delayed gratification when we were children. Eat your dinner first and then you can have dessert. Do your homework and then you can watch TV. Clean your room and then you can go outside. Having a quickie means - acting on impulse, being spontaneous, taking a risk, and doing what you feel like doing NOW! Those are the same feelings a person has when they are having an affair. I just want you to create those same feelings inside your relationship, NOT OUTSIDE! Everyone, ... Read More ...

If I want to know how good your sex life is, all I have to do is ask you how good your communication is. I know that a couple who spends quality time... talking to each other every day has a better sex life than a couple who doesn't communicate. Now here's a sad statistic...The average American couple spends 20 minutes a week talking. That's averages out to 3 minutes a day. That includes Good Morning. What's for dinner? Any mail? How are the kids? How was work? What do you know of, that can survive on 3 minutes? Could ... Read More ...