Has your sex life been a bit neglected lately? Its not like you don't care but well, it's just finding the time and energy. It seems impossible some days because there's work and cleaning and working out and grocery shopping and cooking dinner, laundry, kids, family commitments, friends, ironing! When you do get horizontal you pass out within minutes. Or you're not in the mood. Or you just can't be bothered. Soon enough a month has passed and you can't remember the last time you had sex. And when was the last time you kissed your partner and I mean ... Read More ...

One of the most common complaints I receive in my relationship counseling work is "We hardly ever have sex." Since you might be addicted to the anger and complaining around this issue, I want to make sure you do ALL the right things so you get to continue being angry and complaining about it. Be Angry and Complain Given that anger and complaining are not at all erotic, be sure to continue to be angry and complain about the lack of sex. Your anger and complaints are SURE to turn your partner off. Approach Your Partner Needy Both men and ... Read More ...

The combination of children and marital intimacy is like a snapping turtle in a bubble bath: sure, you can still take a bath, but you can bet your tender parts it'll be a challenge. One of the problems, ironically, is that you were so intimate before you had a baby! You lapsed into sexual intimacy almost without effort, without planning or discussion. (That's one of the reasons why you're in this situation, right?) While you were expecting your miraculous bundle of joy, you may have read parenting how-to books and heard the dark whisperings of rumor that foreshadowed a giant ... Read More ...

Most of the time, the reason the spark has gone out is because things have become mundane or routine. The fastest way to rekindle that flame is to change things around and break that routine. Break the Routine If you and your partner are accustomed to having sex at the same time of the day or at a certain day of the week, chances are that you have started to think of sex as a chore or something to schedule. Simply having sex at a different time of the day can spice things up. Changing your position can also raise ... Read More ...

Sex life? What sex life? You're a parent and life is so busy that you barely have time to think about your own needs, let alone do anything about meeting them. It can seem like your own needs don't matter, it's the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to look after them. Don't be fooled, your needs are important and neglecting them isn't good for anyone, not you, not your partner and definitely not your children. Sure you can't do all the things you did before children, life has changed and pleasure comes ... Read More ...

Seduction is not just for those who want to meet women or attract women for the first time, it is also for those who enjoy familiarity and have been together for a while. A woman likes a bad boy so men do what you can to get her motor revved up. When she arrives home, be standing in the doorway with nothing on but a towel wrapped around your waist and be dripping wet. Water has a way of whetting any woman's appetite (and any man's for that matter). Ladies respond in kind to your man's seductive overtures by teasing ... Read More ...