Is shyness or insecurity keeping you from having what you want? Here's how to get over it. Men agree that one of the most attractive qualities in a woman is when she's self-assured, likes herself, is comfortable with who she is, likes how she looks and most importantly, she's happy. It's impossible to be all those things when you're shy or insecure. And being happy and being shy are two opposites. Being shy is a state of mind and can be changed with practice. The more you describe yourself as shy, the more you believe it is who you are. ... Read More ...