Just for Men

Womens’ Turn Ons and Turn Offs

August 5, 2006 by Ellen Kreidman No Comments

I asked the woman who have been through my program to list the top fifteen traits that turned them off to men, then to list the top fifteen traits that they considered turn-ons. Remember, if you don’t pay close attention to what turns her off, you’ll never get the chance to turn her on.

Turn-On’s

  • Confidence
  • Sense of humor
  • Intelligence
  • Support
  • Sensitivity
  • Self-worth
  • Goals
  • Imagination
  • Independence
  • Desire
  • Courage
  • Compassion
  • Decisiveness
  • Dignity
  • Sense of integrity

Turn-Off’s

  • Lack of self-esteem
  • Laziness
  • Lack of humor
  • Lack of confidence
  • Lack of goals
  • Lack of understanding
  • Negativity
  • Self-centeredness
  • Extreme jealousy
  • Insecurity
  • Smothering dependence
  • Self-pity
  • Lack of trust
  • No ambition
  • Lack of tenderness

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Written by Ellen Kreidman
Ellen Kreidman is the author of "Light Her Fire", a truly awesome book! Men, check out "Light Her Fire". As a teacher, author, and seminar speaker on relationships for over 18 years, Dr. Ellen Kreidman is dedicated to enriching people's lives and improving relationships around the world.