So, women ask me all the time: "What are guys looking for in a woman?" Well, not really. But they're asking somebody. And I feel compelled to answer. Now, I'm not speaking for all guys, just the ones who are like me - the North American Average Joe. It's no mystery, ladies. I mean, you don't have to be Indiana Jones to find the answers. We're pretty simple creatures, often confused by complicated things like "feelings." Some will say guys want a hot bod. Others will say we're all looking for a mother figure. And another group subscribes to the ... Read More ...

Telling when a man likes you isn't rocket science. There are definite signs, if you care to look. From body language to language patterns he is giving off constant signs as to whether he likes you. How to Tell if a Man likes a Woman When You've Never Spoken Is there direct eye contact? Does his smile linger when he sees you? Is his body language open? Ex. Is he sitting with his arms crossed or hanging loosely at his side? Crossed arms are like a no trespassing signal. Open relaxed posture is like a welcome mat. How to Tell ... Read More ...

Believe it or not beneath the confident, silent exterior of a guy, lies a feeling or two. Ladies, we understand, are more verbal than men, and relationship experts tell us--as if it's big news--that the feminine of the genders has a need to hear words of affection. Expressions of love and frequent compliments for their beauty and character strengthen relationships with their sweethearts and build a healthy self-image. Unfortunately, with this bit of knowledge, the presumption is that the masculine minority has no such need and guys are quite secure without such verbal applause. The truth is that, whether needed ... Read More ...

Most women think that you have to be a supermodel to attract a quality man. This is simply not true. Any woman that can follow ten easy steps can increase her chances of finding a great guy by up to 80%. Know What You Want Ahead of Time Most women are simply embarrasingly grateful if any man asks them out. When you focus on the kind of man that you want you begin to unconsciously send out signals to that type of man that you would like to be approached. Prepare Yourself Mentally Visualize yourself being approached by the type ... Read More ...

He?s pleasant and cordial, not a jerk. But there are signs that there won?t be a second date. You?d agreed to meet for a drink. The waiter brings your drinks, but when he asks if you are ready to order, your date says, ?We?re just having drinks.? If he were interested in spending more time with you, he?d say, ?Check back in a little while? or at least offer to order appetizers. He doesn?t make much eye contact. That means he doesn?t like looking at you. Even if he is shy, if a man thinks you?re attractive, he won?t be ... Read More ...

Vanish. Disappear. Do a David Copperfield. I've pondered this a lot, as it's happened often. I've interviewed men friends. The following is what I've gleaned. If you don't hear from a guy after one date, it's clear he's not interested. No problem, even though it's classier to send a nice email stating such. But what if you've gone out 2, 3 or more times? You seem to enjoy each others' company. You have fun. Laugh. Good conversation. Some hand holding. Maybe some kissing. Maybe more. Then poof. He's gone. Without a word. Here are my theories on why he disappears. ... Read More ...

The advice that has, for as long as I can remember, been given to women is: "play hard to get if you want to get a man". If you ask, a lot of men will admit that they like it when a woman plays hard to get because they want a challenge. But does the "play hard to get" rule hold up against actual scientific studies? In one study, a group of college men were recruited for what they thought was a dating service. Each man was given the phone number of a lady and instructed to call her and ... Read More ...

She asks... I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and I still get jealous when he buys FHM or Maxim. He doesn't do it often but I feel like he compares me to the girls in it, which of course I can never look like. I need to know from a mans point of view, when you buy those magazines (FHM, Maxim, Playboy, etc.) what is the real reason for it? The guys answer... "You think he's reading these mags just to keep an eye on the competition? You're out of your mind. There are hot chicks in ... Read More ...

In society today, a man is expected to be strong, independent, and goal-oriented. He is also supposed to be caring and supportive of his loved ones. But, at the same time, he is often condemned if he's not in control of those softer emotions. So, what's a man to do? Men and women may think uniquely, approach problems from opposite ends, and express themselves in different ways, but our feelings inside are much the same. Men need to be able to give and receive tenderness as freely as women. Nobody should have to be strong and in charge all the ... Read More ...

Could 127 million American women be wrong? Despite what men and women think they know about each other, a new survey reveals the two genders don't know each other as well as they think. In fact, according to this survey of the opposite sexes about their perceptions of men's behavior, men may deserve more credit than women give them. The Seagram's VO Gold "It's What Men Do" survey reveals some interesting and often humorous differences between the sexes and begs the question: Are male stereotypes perpetuated by men's actual behavior, or by women's expectations of bad behavior? Here's what the ... Read More ...