Sexperts claim that it takes about three minutes for the typical man to get in the mood. If, during any three random minutes, he sees a picture of a naked woman, thinks about a naked woman, or crawls into bed with a naked woman, he's hotter than The Everglades in August. For the typical woman, however, the story is much different. It takes about 24 hours of romantic foreplay for a woman to become aroused. By foreplay, I'm not talking about hugging, kissing, and caressing-although all of that is perfectly fine, especially during the final few minutes of the 24-hour ... Read More ...

I once knew a salsa instructor in Spain who was scrawny with a jacked up grill, but women flocked to him. It wasn't just the swivel hips. They stood around him, giggling to each other about how he was just so sensual. That is because he really paid attention to them. He noted a nice perfume and complimented new haircuts. When he spoke to a woman, he looked her in the eye, and he listened to what she said. He appreciated every detail that made a woman pleasing, and she appreciated him back. You don't have to be a Spanish ... Read More ...

A lot of you want to turn your guy on. But, not everyone wants to talk about big, throbbing organs and things you'd only hear in a porn flick. You want it to be sensual as much as sexual. Heartfelt as much as horny. Romantic as much as randy. Luckily, you've got me. Well you don't actually have me, my fiancee does. But you've got my help. So, what do you say to drive a man wild without sounding cheesy, or like a sailor on shore leave? And how? Whisper. You know why they call 'em "sweet nothings"? Because you ... Read More ...

There is a little game I play with my wife. I call it the kiss of the week. Each Sunday I designate a certain place to be the "kissing spot" and it is there that I softly plant my lips when I want to let her know I appreciate something she has done or to simply let her know that I love her. I once heard an elderly man describe the success of his 75 year blissful marriage to his wife. He attributed it to the fact that he told his wife daily that he loved her and kissed her ... Read More ...

Write him an erotic story featuring you both as the leads. Take a rather provocative picture of yourself with a digital camera...you in sexy lingerie, or you in a sexy position, or you naked. A tripod and camera with delay feature may be a tool you will need. Get a piece of cardboard the same size and glue the printed picture on the cardboard. Now draw puzzle pieces on the picture and use a sharp pair of scissors to cut around the pieces on your cardboard picture puzzle. Have the pieces sent a few at a time, via courier to ... Read More ...

Men are full of surprises. And bedroom behaviour is no exception. Men have their secrets and they want their wives to know them. It's true that all men have sex secrets. Not the darm sultry secrets of an affair, but a restraint in sharing some cravings or the details of his day-to-day thoughts and actions with his wife - inside and out of the marriage. He may not reveal romance strategies or feelings of vulnerability or shame. These are things that men may have learned, over time, to keep to themselves. Because a man does not always openly express his ... Read More ...

The day after a steamy night with your partner, send a rose to her at work or at home with a note that says something along the lines of: "Last night was extraordinary/really special. I love you." This is a "must do" after the first time you make love. (submitted by Monica) Hang a pair of your sexiest panties on his rear-view mirror. Or, if that is too risky, hang them on the outside doorknob just before he arrives home. Be waiting inside wearing whatever you like, but no panties. (submitted by Devin) Recreate your favorite movie love scene! My ... Read More ...

Lovemaking isn't just for slender women. But large women who have body image issues often have problems in relationships because they think that men want a woman with a perfect body. Although a man isn't going to pass up the chance to look at such a woman, the perfect body is not at the top of a man's want list. You don't have to have that perfect body if you want to enjoy great lovemaking with your man. Here's what men really want from their women: Passion Men love passionate women. A lusty interest in intimacy will wow a man ... Read More ...

1. Hide the Honey This game requires a blindfold and a small amount of honey, chocolate syrup, nutella or caramel...and no clothes. Blindfold your partner, then hide a drop of honey somewhere on your body. Without using his or her hands, and without the aid of sight, your partner has to find that drop of honey...with their mouth. :) 2. What's Your Fantasy? You and your partner should each write down 5, or so, fantasies you have that could be acted out together at the time you are playing the game. Put all of the fantasies in a jar and ... Read More ...

Historically, we guys have been made fun of, because sometimes all it takes is a shift in the breeze to get our motors going. And yes, by and large, we're more visual when it comes to getting turned on. But you've stumbled upon something that many women don't know. We like to be complimented, chased after, and once in a while, even leered at. What's in a guy's head? To quote Cheap Trick: "I want YOU to want ME!" So, here are 10 sure-fire ways to love and lust after your fella. Be specific. Don't go for the blanket statement ... Read More ...