Before you can physically arouse a woman you need to make her "want to be aroused". To get most women in the mood, a man needs to "make love to her all day long." Be nice, loving, and thoughtful and call her in the middle of the day just to say you're thinking of her. Buy her something for no reason. Women need to know you care. They connect naturally through the heart. Men are generally more outward--work and play oriented. They're focused and don't usually think about their relationship as much as women do. Men, if you want her ... Read More ...

When a couple stands at the altar and vows to love each other, "Till death do us part," they take for granted that they will be intimately connected forever. The kiss at the end of the ceremony symbolizes that connection. The kiss is the core of a relationship. It is a barometer of how things are going. A couple can be having sex but not kissing. If they are not kissing passionately the relationship is in trouble. Most couples aren't even aware of when their relationship started changing. What started out as a passionate relationship, over time becomes a friendship. ... Read More ...

Like any muscle, your sexual health requires exercise. Here are 12 tips to put your sexual health in peak form. Break the Routine: Is it the missionary position with the man on top? Are the lights always off? Is sex just for the bedroom? It's the time to ditch the rut and put some zest into your sex. Get a copy of the Kama Sutra, experiment with sex toys (yes, they're quite acceptable!) and for no cost at all, try a different position in every room in the house. Think and Feel Sexy: Great sex isn't about the orgasm (although ... Read More ...

The combination of children and marital intimacy is like a snapping turtle in a bubble bath: sure, you can still take a bath, but you can bet your tender parts it'll be a challenge. One of the problems, ironically, is that you were so intimate before you had a baby! You lapsed into sexual intimacy almost without effort, without planning or discussion. (That's one of the reasons why you're in this situation, right?) While you were expecting your miraculous bundle of joy, you may have read parenting how-to books and heard the dark whisperings of rumor that foreshadowed a giant ... Read More ...

Words are powerful in the boardroom, but they can be magical in the bedroom. If you are looking for ways to spice up your sex life, learn to turn him on the next time you get together with a little bit of dirty talk. Here are 5 tips for opening up a new chapter in the book of your lovemaking with him. Tip #1: Set the tone for your encounter: Breaking into this new territory will be easier if you set the right ambience for your intimate encounter together. Try lighting some candles, buy a new piece of lingerie, or ... Read More ...

Most of the time, the reason the spark has gone out is because things have become mundane or routine. The fastest way to rekindle that flame is to change things around and break that routine. Break the Routine If you and your partner are accustomed to having sex at the same time of the day or at a certain day of the week, chances are that you have started to think of sex as a chore or something to schedule. Simply having sex at a different time of the day can spice things up. Changing your position can also raise ... Read More ...

Sex life? What sex life? You're a parent and life is so busy that you barely have time to think about your own needs, let alone do anything about meeting them. It can seem like your own needs don't matter, it's the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to look after them. Don't be fooled, your needs are important and neglecting them isn't good for anyone, not you, not your partner and definitely not your children. Sure you can't do all the things you did before children, life has changed and pleasure comes ... Read More ...

Ask your spouse to answer the following questions: What do you want? Where do you want it? How do you want it? For how long do you want it? Get you lover to write out 5 of his/her fantasies on pieces of paper, you do the same. When you are both finished, put the 10 fantasies in a jar and keep it in a private place. Take turns picking from it whenever you feel adventurous. Perform a strip tease for your love. Wear sexy lingerie with lots of ties and lace, have erotic music playing and use red light bulbs ... Read More ...

Have you ever fantasized about being a stripper? Have you ever thought it would be cool to do a striptease for your lover? Well, guess what? You're not alone! Truth be told, many women have this same fantasy. Many more have even "busted a move" for their lover. Sound like fun? It sure is! Plus, the Romantic Striptease is an awesome way to show your lover just how sexy you're feeling. And take it from me, he will agree with you 100%. Of course anytime you remove your own clothes in front of your lover there's sure to be "fireworks". ... Read More ...

Marriage is a life long bond between two partners. It is a mutual relationship. There has to be total involvement of both the partners. It is coming together of two people to live a life together maintaining the initial love feelings that got you close together. Generally a marriage looses those feelings of love and sensuality with the passage of time. You no more feel that excitement about your married life. To make your marriage sexy you should develop an art within you to keep things rocking. Here are certain tips you can follow to make your marriage for ever ... Read More ...