Before you can physically arouse a woman you need to make her "want to be aroused". To get most women in the mood, a man needs to "make love to her all day long." Be nice, loving, and thoughtful and call her in the middle of the day just to say you're thinking of her. Buy her something for no reason. Women need to know you care. They connect naturally through the heart. Men are generally more outward--work and play oriented. They're focused and don't usually think about their relationship as much as women do. Men, if you want her ... Read More ...

When a couple stands at the altar and vows to love each other, "Till death do us part," they take for granted that they will be intimately connected forever. The kiss at the end of the ceremony symbolizes that connection. The kiss is the core of a relationship. It is a barometer of how things are going. A couple can be having sex but not kissing. If they are not kissing passionately the relationship is in trouble. Most couples aren't even aware of when their relationship started changing. What started out as a passionate relationship, over time becomes a friendship. ... Read More ...

Like any muscle, your sexual health requires exercise. Here are 12 tips to put your sexual health in peak form. Break the Routine: Is it the missionary position with the man on top? Are the lights always off? Is sex just for the bedroom? It's the time to ditch the rut and put some zest into your sex. Get a copy of the Kama Sutra, experiment with sex toys (yes, they're quite acceptable!) and for no cost at all, try a different position in every room in the house. Think and Feel Sexy: Great sex isn't about the orgasm (although ... Read More ...

The combination of children and marital intimacy is like a snapping turtle in a bubble bath: sure, you can still take a bath, but you can bet your tender parts it'll be a challenge. One of the problems, ironically, is that you were so intimate before you had a baby! You lapsed into sexual intimacy almost without effort, without planning or discussion. (That's one of the reasons why you're in this situation, right?) While you were expecting your miraculous bundle of joy, you may have read parenting how-to books and heard the dark whisperings of rumor that foreshadowed a giant ... Read More ...

Words are powerful in the boardroom, but they can be magical in the bedroom. If you are looking for ways to spice up your sex life, learn to turn him on the next time you get together with a little bit of dirty talk. Here are 5 tips for opening up a new chapter in the book of your lovemaking with him. Tip #1: Set the tone for your encounter: Breaking into this new territory will be easier if you set the right ambience for your intimate encounter together. Try lighting some candles, buy a new piece of lingerie, or ... Read More ...

Most of the time, the reason the spark has gone out is because things have become mundane or routine. The fastest way to rekindle that flame is to change things around and break that routine. Break the Routine If you and your partner are accustomed to having sex at the same time of the day or at a certain day of the week, chances are that you have started to think of sex as a chore or something to schedule. Simply having sex at a different time of the day can spice things up. Changing your position can also raise ... Read More ...

Sex life? What sex life? You?re a parent and life is so busy that you barely have time to think about your own needs, let alone do anything about meeting them. It can seem like your own needs don?t matter, it?s the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to look after them. Don?t be fooled, your needs are important and neglecting them isn?t good for anyone, not you, not your partner and definitely not your children. Sure you can?t do all the things you did before children, life has changed and pleasure comes ... Read More ...

Ask your spouse to answer the following questions: What do you want? Where do you want it? How do you want it? For how long do you want it? Get you lover to write out 5 of his/her fantasies on pieces of paper, you do the same. When you are both finished, put the 10 fantasies in a jar and keep it in a private place. Take turns picking from it whenever you feel adventurous. Perform a strip tease for your love. Wear sexy lingerie with lots of ties and lace, have erotic music playing and use red light bulbs ... Read More ...

Have you ever fantasized about being a stripper? Have you ever thought it would be cool to do a striptease for your lover? Well, guess what? You're not alone! Truth be told, many women have this same fantasy. Many more have even "busted a move" for their lover. Sound like fun? It sure is! Plus, the Romantic Striptease is an awesome way to show your lover just how sexy you're feeling. And take it from me, he will agree with you 100%. Of course anytime you remove your own clothes in front of your lover there's sure to be "fireworks". ... Read More ...

Marriage is a life long bond between two partners. It is a mutual relationship. There has to be total involvement of both the partners. It is coming together of two people to live a life together maintaining the initial love feelings that got you close together. Generally a marriage looses those feelings of love and sensuality with the passage of time. You no more feel that excitement about your married life. To make your marriage sexy you should develop an art within you to keep things rocking. Here are certain tips you can follow to make your marriage for ever ... Read More ...

Seduction is not just for those who want to meet women or attract women for the first time, it is also for those who enjoy familiarity and have been together for a while. A woman likes a bad boy so men do what you can to get her motor revved up. When she arrives home, be standing in the doorway with nothing on but a towel wrapped around your waist and be dripping wet. Water has a way of whetting any woman's appetite (and any man's for that matter). Ladies respond in kind to your man's seductive overtures by teasing ... Read More ...

Orally pleasuring a woman can be an intimidating prospect for even the most experienced lover, not to mention the beginner. However, good oral sex can not only provide plenty of pleasurable fun on its own, something that makes it great for those interested in exploring alternatives to intercourse, but it can also work great as a part of foreplay. Even fifteen minutes of oral sex, when done right, will have a woman warmed up and asking for more. While specific techniques are sometimes helpful, they can also be a source of frustration for the first-timer. Additionally, since all women are ... Read More ...

Looking for a sexy gift you can both enjoy? Something a little naughty, but real nice. Then I have some awesome ideas for you! Now these are not your everyday hum-drum gifts. These gifts will allow you and your partner to share some quality intimate times together. To start, lingerie is always a sexy gift to give your partner. Just be sure it's a color she loves and a size that will fit her well. But, we can go well beyond lingerie for the exotic gift you both can enjoy. For instance, how about a romantic board game. There are ... Read More ...

Pretending to be someone else can be fun. Remember when you were a kid and you would dress up as your favorite character. For girls it may have been a princess, favorite actress or singer. For the guys it may have been your favorite super hero, or villain. Well, whatever it was it doesn't have to stop just because you've become an adult. As a matter of fact, incorporating this dress up fun into your love life can be very rewarding. Pretending to be someone else with the one you love is exciting and can generally lead to some very ... Read More ...

As men and women all over the world share their warmth on these cold wintry nights, a celebration of love looms on the horizon, and with it, the promise of the coming spring. The rituals of Valentines Day so often consists of a box of chocolates and some roses, followed by dinner, and an expectation of some better than the usual sex. Ever wonder if it could get any better than this? It can. Here's a wake up call to men of all ages. It's up to you to make it better. Take hold of the reins and do the ... Read More ...

Premature ejaculation is embarrassing for the man and no fun for the woman. If you're having a bit of a problem going for the long run, here are 7 tips that will help. Relax Premature ejaculation often results from performance anxiety. Try oral sex, toys, fingers, and passionate kissing to build her passion. If she's sufficiently excited before intercourse she won?t need as much time to reach orgasm. Take care of yourself beforehand Premature ejaculation sometimes occurs because guys are too fired up. The slightest bit of action sets them off a bit too soon. Relieve some pressure by masturbating ... Read More ...

Ever wanted to achieve more sexual pleasure for you and your partner? Have you ever felt like your sexual patterns are preventing you and your lover from experiencing sex as blissfully as you know it can be? Does the prospect of having sex sometimes seem too daunting just because of a history of unsatisfying experiences? Changing your sexual patterns may be a burning issue for you, a passing curiosity or perhaps you know someone that could benefit from this information. In any case I am sure you will find the following informative and interesting. Slow down. It may seem obvious, ... Read More ...

This week I want you to put sex on the calendar. You heard me right! Yes, I want you to plan for it. I know some of you are saying, "What about the spontaneity?" It was never spontaneous. In the beginning you always planned to be together. Let me ask you something. What do you think a honeymoon is, if not an entire week of planned sex? And everyone has the time of his or her life planning for that... sometimes a year in advance. You go out and buy special lingerie, undergarments, cologne, perfume and it's exciting, knowing that ... Read More ...

Now I know that for some of you this will be a challenge. We all learned delayed gratification when we were children. Eat your dinner first and then you can have dessert. Do your homework and then you can watch TV. Clean your room and then you can go outside. Having a quickie means - acting on impulse, being spontaneous, taking a risk, and doing what you feel like doing NOW! Those are the same feelings a person has when they are having an affair. I just want you to create those same feelings inside your relationship, NOT OUTSIDE! Everyone, ... Read More ...

If I want to know how good your sex life is, all I have to do is ask you how good your communication is. I know that a couple who spends quality time... talking to each other every day has a better sex life than a couple who doesn't communicate. Now here's a sad statistic...The average American couple spends 20 minutes a week talking. That's averages out to 3 minutes a day. That includes Good Morning. What's for dinner? Any mail? How are the kids? How was work? What do you know of, that can survive on 3 minutes? Could ... Read More ...