Men are full of surprises. And bedroom behaviour is no exception. Men have their secrets and they want their wives to know them. It's true that all men have sex secrets. Not the darm sultry secrets of an affair, but a restraint in sharing some cravings or the details of his day-to-day thoughts and actions with his wife - inside and out of the marriage. He may not reveal romance strategies or feelings of vulnerability or shame. These are things that men may have learned, over time, to keep to themselves. Because a man does not always openly express his ... Read More ...

The day after a steamy night with your partner, send a rose to her at work or at home with a note that says something along the lines of: "Last night was extraordinary/really special. I love you." This is a "must do" after the first time you make love. (submitted by Monica) Hang a pair of your sexiest panties on his rear-view mirror. Or, if that is too risky, hang them on the outside doorknob just before he arrives home. Be waiting inside wearing whatever you like, but no panties. (submitted by Devin) Recreate your favorite movie love scene! My ... Read More ...

Lovemaking isn't just for slender women. But large women who have body image issues often have problems in relationships because they think that men want a woman with a perfect body. Although a man isn't going to pass up the chance to look at such a woman, the perfect body is not at the top of a man's want list. You don't have to have that perfect body if you want to enjoy great lovemaking with your man. Here's what men really want from their women: Passion Men love passionate women. A lusty interest in intimacy will wow a man ... Read More ...

1. Hide the Honey This game requires a blindfold and a small amount of honey, chocolate syrup, nutella or caramel...and no clothes. Blindfold your partner, then hide a drop of honey somewhere on your body. Without using his or her hands, and without the aid of sight, your partner has to find that drop of honey...with their mouth. :) 2. What's Your Fantasy? You and your partner should each write down 5, or so, fantasies you have that could be acted out together at the time you are playing the game. Put all of the fantasies in a jar and ... Read More ...

Historically, we guys have been made fun of, because sometimes all it takes is a shift in the breeze to get our motors going. And yes, by and large, we're more visual when it comes to getting turned on. But you've stumbled upon something that many women don't know. We like to be complimented, chased after, and once in a while, even leered at. What's in a guy's head? To quote Cheap Trick: "I want YOU to want ME!" So, here are 10 sure-fire ways to love and lust after your fella. Be specific. Don't go for the blanket statement ... Read More ...

These 3 mistakes all come from the "land of good intentions", but still, they wreak merciless havoc on the lives of countless men. I'm referring to the following: 1. The Paradox of Trying Too Hard 2. The Paradox of Thinking Too Much 3. The Paradox of the Simple Moves 1. THE PARADOX OF TRYING TOO HARD Great sex will always be about FLOW. One doesn't need to press for it, trying too hard on any area will cause you to mess it up and that's a guarantee. The tragedy is that most men don't even see this one coming and ... Read More ...

A great way to add spice to your love life, and keep your partner's interest up (so to speak), as well as your own, is to talk sexy. The best way to describe what I mean is to give you some examples. IN BED: During lovemaking, in those times of rest, in between the high energy times, talk about what you just did and how it made you feel; what your partner did and how it made you feel; how your partner reacted to something you did. Say things like, "When I swirled my tongue around the tip of your ... Read More ...

Replace the boring white light bulbs in your bedroom lamp and put in some red light bulbs instead. You can get the red light bulbs in any hardware store. And believe me red light makes you look young, and thin - you have no lines or wrinkles, I'm sure that's why they have the red light districts. When your mate turns on the lamp and sees the red light and says, "What is this?" You tell them, that red is the color of love and I wanted to fill the whole room with my love for you. ... Read More ...

One of the most common complaints I receive in my relationship counseling work is "We hardly ever have sex." Since you might be addicted to the anger and complaining around this issue, I want to make sure you do ALL the right things so you get to continue being angry and complaining about it. Be Angry and Complain Given that anger and complaining are not at all erotic, be sure to continue to be angry and complain about the lack of sex. Your anger and complaints are SURE to turn your partner off. Approach Your Partner Needy Both men and ... Read More ...

Hello Doc, I?m sure you've been asked this question before. My girlfriend does not want to perform oral sex on me. Is there a way I can get her to change her mind? I mean, ever since the day she told me, I've been fine with it. I told her I had no problem with it. And she doesn?t know that I feel this way. I much rather have her do it than not do it. So is there a way to get her to change her mind at all? ================= Hello! You bet there is. First of all, you ... Read More ...