Love is a mystery for most of us and often, we feel insecure about whether or not it will last. Men crave to be understood more than you'll ever know. Here are a few simple secrets every woman should know: Men need to feel successful, so-much-so that, to a man, failure is death. For them, if they fail, they no longer feel like men. It's why men commit suicide more often than women.  Men are most attracted to happy women who genuinely like themselves and who enjoy being women. When you're happy, he feels successful. When you're a bottomless pit ... Read More ...

When you get to your mid-20's, a funny thing starts to happen. Your friends start to change. They stop saying "I" and start saying "we." You get invited over on Sundays for brunch instead of for football. And they're buying artwork instead of posters. Yeah. They all start getting married. It's like a cult. Instead of handing out flowers at the airport, they're handing out florists' business cards and pictures of their receptions. You've rented more tuxedos or bought more bridesmaid dresses in the past year than you have in the past 10. Every weekend from Memorial Day to Halloween ... Read More ...

Following are Twelve Simple Secrets that you should know about her. When you're done reading them you'll have a better grip on what to do to make her smile a little brighter. Secret #1: Romance is the key to sex Romance is routine maintenance--yeah, like your car -- to keep things running smoothly. Remember all those romantic things you did to win her in the first place? Keep doing them now and then. If you let her know often that you care, she stays open and responsive to your sexual overtures. Romance is all the little things you do to ... Read More ...

I once saw a guy take a lemon wedge off the plate provided and begin to squeeze the lemon so that the juice would go into his iced tea. As he cranked down on that wedge one of the lemon seeds popped out of the lemon, travelling at the speed of light, and hit his date smack on the middle of her right breast. Mortified, this poor guy dropped the wedge into his glass, which overflowed for a minute onto the table, popped up to help his date without pulling his chair from the table which unsettled the table. As ... Read More ...

If you've been reading my column for a while now, you know that we tend to move freely between the philosophical and the practical around here. Well, today's edition is going to be decidedly practical. In fact, what I'm about to share with you is something that EVERY MAN should know: WHEN to call off a date you've already set up with a woman, and exactly how to go about it. Honestly, I'm a bit surprised that literally NOBODY ever has covered this subject in the world of men's dating and seduction advice, at least as far as I've seen. ... Read More ...

When he looked into her eyes over the breakfast counter she was immediately hooked. Deep brown eyes, perfect brows and lips, oh lips just right to kiss! When he asked what she was doing later that day her heart went crazy in her chest and she lost her breath for a moment. So this is what it's like she thought, love at first sight! When he left the restaurant she noticed his wide shoulders and narrow waist. He has on jeans and a T-shirt and she didn't even ask him his name. Later that day as she waited for him ... Read More ...

Most of the time, you won't find women out on their own. In these situations, you need to use a few particular skills to get working the way you need it. The steps are simple - but until you learn them, you aren't going to have much luck approaching ladies in large groups. How To Handle a Woman in a Group In the previous section while I was talking about separation - and especially about separating a woman you've just met from her friends - I bet some of you a bunch of thoughts. Things like "That sounds great in ... Read More ...

Want to quintuple your odds of winning in the dating game? We surveyed a variety of top experts and learned five unbelievably effective secrets to make the opposite sex come running. Here's how you can use them to work for you: Be the Center of Attention Want to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spacial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract ... Read More ...

Ok, you've probably heard that Laundromats are great pick up places, better than a singles bar - that's because they are! Maybe not better, but certainly a great alternative that's just as good. You can pretend your entire motive is to wash clothes, and that you're not on the make. The woman won't have that feeling like you're just trying to pick her up if you strike up a chat here - even if that's exactly what you're doing! What really helps you out here is that women like to talk, and they love to give advice - especially to ... Read More ...

Is shyness or insecurity keeping you from having what you want? Here's how to get over it. Men agree that one of the most attractive qualities in a woman is when she's self-assured, likes herself, is comfortable with who she is, likes how she looks and most importantly, she's happy. It's impossible to be all those things when you're shy or insecure. And being happy and being shy are two opposites. Being shy is a state of mind and can be changed with practice. The more you describe yourself as shy, the more you believe it is who you are. ... Read More ...